DATING ADVICE

Basic Traits Colombian Women LOVE About Foreign Men

Sofia Diaz
3 min readJul 17, 2023

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Okay, so you’re in Colombia and you’re trying to find love. Maybe you haven’t had the best of luck in the past and you’ve decided to try your hand at dating Colombian women because they’re beautiful.

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But you notice something about dating in Colombia as a foreigner; the thing that makes the women down there beautiful doesn’t just affect the women. It affects the men as well. And now you’re wondering if you’ve even got a chance since beautiful people tend to date other beautiful people, and you’re not exactly getting any offers to walk down runways or appear in glossy magazines.

But that doesn’t mean you don’t have a few things that turn on Colombian women. It may not be as overt as the male models, suave gentlemen, or super athletes that you’re surrounded with, but you’ve got a few little things that you might be able to use to your advantage when dating.

You’re new

The first thing that you’ve got going for you when you’re dating Colombian singles is that you’re foreign. It means that you’re new, relatively speaking, and you’ve got a certain novelty about you, which isn’t terrible.

Think of it this way; you’ve got a favorite food, right? But if you eat it every day, you might get a little tired of it. Maybe you’ll start to crave something a little different, just for the sake of variety. You could be that something different, and while not everyone starts to want something different, there’s bound to be a few women down in Colombia that do.

It’s often said that variety is the spice of life. And guess what, you can be that variety. You can be that spice even if you can’t actually handle your spice all that well. Some women might think that you being foreign means you have a different perspective than they do, which means that you might be able to expand their horizons to some degree.

Some women might find your stilted Spanish adorable

Do you speak Spanish? Are you fluent? Can you speak it flawlessly to the point that you could pass for someone who spoke it as their first language or grew up in a household that spoke it? Well, if the answer is no, then you might just be in luck if you ever find yourself down in Colombia.

Some women down there might find your inability to speak Spanish, or your extremely limited ability with it, adorable, like a baby deer that’s standing up for the first time and learning how to walk. Maybe they’ll even find it charming in an endearing sort of way.

It’s not a guarantee that stilted Spanish will help you land a date and it might even repel a few Colombian women, but it’s not going to repel everyone, and among the ones that it doesn’t repel might be the one for you.

There’s no exact science behind finding love. There’s no one trait that’s going to guarantee that you’re going to find love. But the little things that you’ve got going for you can build up over time.

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Sofia Diaz
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